NEWS | Xbox Live: It is now OK to mention your sexuality without getting banned

Mar 5th, 2010 @ 12:38 pm | No Comments -
Xbox 360 players can now use the following words to ‘express their relationship orientation’ in profiles and Gamertags; ‘Lesbian’, ‘Gay’, ‘Bi’,...

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Self-Love: life beyond therapy

Jan 15th, 2010 @ 2:43 pm | 3 Comments -
I have clients who tell me that it’s painful for them to walk down the street and see all those happy LGBT (or straight) couples. “It makes me feel so lonely and unwanted”,...

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The Psychology of Gaining Weight

Jan 7th, 2010 @ 12:09 pm | No Comments -
Recently, a local news program interviewed me about why people gain weight. Weight gain (and loss) is, for many of us, right up there with sex and money on the anxiety scale. Anxiety...

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Is Avatar a Trans-Phobic Movie? Or Merely Staying True to Evolution?

Jan 5th, 2010 @ 11:11 am | 3 Comments -
Two weeks ago, a young transgender Bay Area blogger named Lara called for a nationwide protest against Avatar because, she claimed, the movie ignores “ignores the fact of...

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NEWS | Was Professor Don Belton Murdered Over a Rape? Or Regrets Over a Relationship?

Dec 30th, 2009 @ 11:55 am | 1 Comment -
As if the Sunday morning murder of Anthony J. Perkins, the gay D.C. man found shot to death in his car, weren’t enough terrible news this holiday, here’s word that...

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Which One of You Is The Man and Which One The Woman?

Dec 17th, 2009 @ 1:00 pm | 6 Comments -
Which one of you is the man and which one the woman? This question never fails to bemuse. We’re both gay men. Doesn’t that kind of make it clear that neither of us...

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Ron Livingston: ‘Office Space’ Star Battles ‘Malicious’ Gay Rumors Online

Dec 7th, 2009 @ 10:26 am | No Comments -
Wikipedia doesn’t always get it right. At least, that’s what actor Ron Livingston wants you to believe. The star, who played is a disgruntled employee in the movie...

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Stop Hating Yourself: The Joys of Getting Older – life beyond therapy

Dec 4th, 2009 @ 12:18 pm | 19 Comments -
It seems like an epidemic: we’re all becoming older and feeling that we’re becoming more-and-more invisible. I get a lot of emails from mid-life gay men (and a few women)...

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